By Jess Sullivan
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20 Feb, 2018
It happens to all of us. Whether you're in a rut because you totally fell off the fitness wagon or because you fell into a routine that stopped working for you, fitness is complex phenomenon and we have to address it as such. We all make the mistake of associating one detail with fitness and blowing it out of proportion. Too often I meet women who only feel fit when they fit into one pair of pants (I am hoping my friends eventually forget my winter 2018 freakout when I found out I no longer fit into my skinny jeans from college) or see a certain bone protruding in a photo (we all know the weird skinny arm thing where you almost dislocate your shoulder for the gram). Some of us are performance based and feel that anything short of running XX miles in XX time, or doing a certain amount of pushups, means we are either fit or not. Fitness isn't about one thing fitting or a single metric. It's how you feel, how you move, and what you think. Listen to your body If you are tired, if you don't feel like you're getting stronger, if you don't look forward to your meals, or if you find yourself paying more cancelation fees than actual payments for group classes, you are in a rut. First you have to think about how you feel. When did it change? Think about some of your habits the last time you felt good in the morning, or excited about a workout. What went wrong? If you're tired, you need more sleep. If you're constantly hungry (or too full), you have to think about what you're eating and why. If your workouts have plateaued, when did that start? If you never remembering feeling good and excited about fitness, that's important too. How would you like to feel? Calmer, stronger, more flexible? Write it down and start making moves toward this goal. Make a change Don't stay there. If you're paying a gym membership that you aren't using - cancel it. Join a new gym, something you haven't tried. Get on Yelp! and go to something that jives with you. If you need a new idea for an in home workout, get on Youtube and start finding some channels you enjoy (so many options, seriousy). If you know your nutrition is way off, clean out your pantry and start fresh. Find an instagram that supports your diet and learn some new recipes. If it all seems daunting, google a therapist and figure out why this is so tough. Just don't stay there. It may be comfortable but it doesn't serve you. Get a little uncomfortable, it's where we grow. Track your journey out of the rut Fitness is not a direct path, it makes all kinds of twists and turns. Sometimes our bodies don't do what we want and often our emotions don't compell us to make the choices that are actually best for us. Take actual note of how you feel, both emotionally and physically, as you make these changes. Make a little tab on your phone for notes and mark down when you feel good, hungry, cranky, sore, etc. As a trainer the first thing I have my clients do is describe their sleep. Then I ask about diet. Finally, I ask about their workouts. Actual fitness starts with a mental state that you're going to nourish yourself instead of punishing yourself. Set your sights on what you want to feel like each day, then start making these small tweaks and watch (becuase you're actually tracking it) what happens. I just clawed my own way out of a rut using these exact steps. For me, the rut was about not wanting to deal with real life, so I ignored workouts and nutrition and submerged myself in work. I had to take a good hard look at what I was ignoring in my personal life and why I felt the need to escape into the lives of my clients and riders all day every day. It required some difficult changes and the process was painful, but I feel better today than I have in a long time. I don't want you to stay in a rut. No one should live in a rut. Nothing beautiful happens in there. Get your rest, eat your greens, find workouts that are challenging and fresh, and take a moment to check in with your body each day. Staying in a rut is a decision all on its own. Make a different one - the one to take care of you, body and soul.